ADHD Symptoms in Adult Women
Women with undiagnosed ADHD may have issues at workplace or in relationships. It's crucial to recognize the symptoms of ADHD and seek the right treatment for you.
Symptoms of ADHD in adults are more likely to be the inattentive type than hyperactivity/impulsive. A proper diagnosis can assist you in improving your life by addressing your symptoms and focusing on what matters most.
1. Difficulty paying attention
Women may struggle to pay attention to the details, remembering appointments and deadlines, or underestimating how long it takes to complete the task. They may also be unable to keep track of their responsibilities in relationships or work They can easily get distracted and aren't able to keep promises. They may also be afflicted by the urge to be impulsive, difficulty controlling their emotions and a tendency to blurt out things without thinking it through first.
It is crucial to recognize and treat symptoms of ADHD in adult women. The inability to concentrate can lead to problems with friendships and relationships. Women may find it difficult to make new friends or struggle with their relationships due to frequent arguments and opportunities to have fun and being ignored. Women can also struggle to manage the demands of home, work and childcare.
Many people who have ADHD don't meet the diagnostic criteria, and it could be difficult for health professionals or therapists to recognize the disorder. It doesn't mean that it's not real or that the person has to be more focused. Diagnoses are based on the symptoms and how they affect daily functioning in multiple areas.
It is more common for women to experience inattention rather than hyperactive or impulsive symptoms and that could help explain why this group of people often go undiagnosed. Many women with ADHD are also embarrassed of their symptoms since they don't fit stereotypes of ADHD. This can make it even more difficult to seek assistance or get treatment.
In a few cases, women with ADHD remain undiagnosed for a long time because they are trying to cope and hide their symptoms. They are also more likely to have comorbidities, such as anxiety or depression which may mask the symptoms of ADHD. They are more likely to have hormonal fluctuations that can cause their symptoms to flare up or disappear. This is especially true during menstruation or pregnancy, as well as perimenopausal.
2. Problems with Organization
Women suffering from ADHD often experience forgetfulness, disorganization and emotional dysregulation. These symptoms can make it difficult for them to handle their daily tasks, keep track with their responsibilities and maintain relationships. They might also suffer from low self-esteem and experience anxiety. Women with undiagnosed ADHD often feel as if they're not achieving social expectations and have a hard than their peers in terms of academic achievement or job performance. They also have a harder time maintaining social interactions.
In addition to a lack of organization and forgetfulness, ADHD in adult women can manifest as hyperfocus or procrastination. These issues can lead women to miss appointments, not pay bills on time, and feel overwhelmed. Hyperfocus can lead to a loss of focus on other crucial tasks, as well as a lack of understanding of time. This can make it hard to switch from one task to another. ADHD symptoms in adult women can also result in an increase in anxiety, stress, and the constant feeling of being left behind.
Communication issues that are nonverbal as well as verbal, are another common manifestation of ADHD. This could include a lot of talking and interrupting other people or using inappropriate words. This could include the inability to wait or a difficulty understanding the boundaries of social interaction. It is important to remember that these behaviors don't necessarily indicate a lack in the ability or intelligence.
Many women with ADHD have coping strategies to disguise their symptoms. These strategies can have positive and negative impacts. Some of these strategies can be healthy, for instance, using a daily schedule or setting reminders for certain events. Others may be unhealthy like using alcohol or drugs to conceal symptoms or not paying attention to them at all. As a result, it is important for women who suspect they have ADHD to seek assistance from an expert in mental health.
Women with ADHD might benefit from medications, lifestyle changes, therapy, or other treatment options. These include cognitive behavioral therapy, which addresses negative thoughts and beliefs, mindfulness and relaxation, exercise as well as a healthy diet and enough rest. A health professional may also recommend accommodations to make school or work simpler.
3. Disruptive Behaviors

Women with ADHD are often afflicted by emotional dysregulation. They become frustrated and discouraged if life's challenges can't be easily solved. This can make it difficult for them to maintain relationships with loved ones, friends as well as coworkers. For instance, forgetfulness and impulsivity can heighten the frustration or confusion in relationships with loved ones and can cause feelings of loneliness, loss or depression. In addition, a tendency to seek an instant thrill can be misinterpreted as lack of interest or apathy by others.
For these reasons, ADHD symptoms are often missed or not recognized in women and girls. It is possible that they are not able to recognize their issues as being related to ADHD due to stereotypes and social norms about men and women's behavior.
Women and girls with ADHD tend to conceal their symptoms to avoid causing embarrassment. This may lead to being referred to a specialist less often than men and boys who have the same symptoms. Additionally there is a gender bias in the research that informs diagnostic criteria could be a factor in this disparity. Hartung and Widiger discovered in an earlier study that girls and women with ADHD symptoms are more likely to go undiagnosed and under-identified than boys and adults. This could be due to the fact that healthcare professionals are trained to think of hyperactive and impulsive ADHD as more prevalent in both men and boys. This can make them easier to identify and to refer for assessment.
Adult ADHD symptoms can manifest themselves as anxiety and a struggle to settle down. These are typical symptoms of ADHD however, in the later years of adulthood they can have a major impact on one's life and well-being. People with ADHD may feel restless or find it hard to sit still. This is particularly when they're feeling anxious or stressed. They tend to fidget and are often very talkative. They frequently interrupt or finish sentences of other people without even realizing they're causing offence.
If you suspect you may have ADHD Your doctor or registered psychologist can refer you to a psychiatrist to conduct an assessment. You can also self-refer. This information was reviewed in the month of October 2024 and revised in November 2022 by Madeline Dykes, clinical psychologist and a member of the Thriving Madly peer support network in Christchurch.
4. Social Skills Problems
Women suffering from ADHD might have trouble managing their emotions or communicating effectively at work. This can create problems that interfere with personal relationships and professional goals. They may be unable to recognize and responding in a timely manner to feedback. This can result in disappointment or anger. Also, they may struggle to maintain healthy sleeping and eating habits, which can cause anxiety. Women with ADHD utilize unhealthy strategies for coping to deal with their issues. This can include alcohol abuse or eating disorders, or non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI), such as cutting, burning, or scratching.
Women with ADHD may be more hesitant to get help as adults than males, because they are more likely to hide their symptoms. They often develop coping strategies to try to fit in and meet societal expectations, which can make their ADHD symptoms harder for others to recognize. These strategies for coping could be as simple as creating lists and establishing reminders, or more complicated, such as learning to control their emotions or implementing mindfulness techniques.
These coping strategies can but backfire and cause more symptoms. They can also make it difficult to get good sleep, which is vital to manage ADHD symptoms. Women suffering from ADHD are also prone to feeling overwhelmed by the demands of daily life, which can lead to an increase in ADHD symptoms.
It's true that boys are more frequently diagnosed with ADHD than girls. However, the gap narrows as they age. This is due to the fact that women frequently suffer from a variety of symptoms throughout the course of their lives. This can lead to different diagnoses.
Changing hormone levels can also affect ADHD symptoms in women. If they have a higher estrogen level during pregnancy, for example, their symptoms may improve. This is because estrogen levels can help regulate the brain chemicals that affect attention. If they start to notice a decrease in estrogen levels due to perimenopausal changes or age or perimenopausal symptoms, their ADHD symptoms could become more severe.
Adults suffering from ADHD can receive an accurate diagnosis, and they can get effective treatment. This includes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and neurocognitive psychology, as well as other treatments that can help people with ADHD improve their daily functioning. They can also attend support group meetings for ADHD in order to share their experience with other people on the same journey and gain valuable insight from their colleagues.